That makes sense. Bad vibes are worse than just the guy who promises that he'll be able to pay up fully next time. You gotta maintain the right mood.
...Considering we come from different times, I suppose I do have to ask if people in your day really make it sound fun to be called crazy. Cos I can tell you that in my time no one managed to make it sound like fun.
Unless you're into people being shitty to you. I don't know if it really 'takes' all types, but all types are certainly out there.
[Hanna's face falls a little.] bad vibes is a little harsh. More like. They take it as unpredictable or maybe off my meds sort of vibe, which okay, sure. Normal people don't believe the paranormal cause they can't see it?
[He waves his hands as the camera, shifting to the next topic because he knows how that sounds. Excuses for your bad vibes usually only makes them worse.]
Anyways, there is a difference between 'oh that guy is crazy, he was in here downing shots like a machine and killing it at karaoke' and 'oh that guy? He's crazy. Talking about curses and ghosts.'
Tone is very important, but crazy can mean fun in a sort of...enthusiastic, over indulgent sort of way but that's definitely not the version of the word that gets me kicked out of bars.
I'm not saying you necessarily have bad vibes. You might - I've learned that you can't know for sure what someone's bringing to the party till you're there - but you can still bring 'em with you even if they aren't inherent, you know? The air of something no one wants to believe in.
[He raises a shoulder.]
Sometimes the tone behind 'crazy' can change, depending on what happens after you down all those shots. 'Course, you might also just be going to the wrong bars. I know plenty where talking curses and shit could get you the right sort of attention.
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Re: Video back dated to shortly after Hannas network post
Date: 2024-10-27 06:23 am (UTC)That makes sense. Bad vibes are worse than just the guy who promises that he'll be able to pay up fully next time. You gotta maintain the right mood.
...Considering we come from different times, I suppose I do have to ask if people in your day really make it sound fun to be called crazy. Cos I can tell you that in my time no one managed to make it sound like fun.
Unless you're into people being shitty to you. I don't know if it really 'takes' all types, but all types are certainly out there.
Re: Video back dated to shortly after Hannas network post
Date: 2024-10-27 01:20 pm (UTC)[He waves his hands as the camera, shifting to the next topic because he knows how that sounds. Excuses for your bad vibes usually only makes them worse.]
Anyways, there is a difference between 'oh that guy is crazy, he was in here downing shots like a machine and killing it at karaoke' and 'oh that guy? He's crazy. Talking about curses and ghosts.'
Tone is very important, but crazy can mean fun in a sort of...enthusiastic, over indulgent sort of way but that's definitely not the version of the word that gets me kicked out of bars.
Re: Video back dated to shortly after Hannas network post
Date: 2024-11-24 03:44 am (UTC)[He raises a shoulder.]
Sometimes the tone behind 'crazy' can change, depending on what happens after you down all those shots. 'Course, you might also just be going to the wrong bars. I know plenty where talking curses and shit could get you the right sort of attention.
As long as you're careful not to be too accurate.